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Monday, November 30, 2009

Finally! . . .Did I tell you?


Sorry for the graphic nature of this picture. I know some people don't like to see where their food comes from. But yes, my husband is a hunter (sorry to all you animal activists out there), and after several years of nothing - we will finally have meat in our freezer again.

And don't worry, none of it goes to waste! We make sure to throw it out for the animals to gnaw on. ;)

Friday, November 27, 2009

Merry Tossmas

Just a little something to ponder on Black Friday. . .

(Don't forget to pause the music at the bottom)

Wanna know who supports CHRISTmas and who just wants your "holiday" money? Click here for the American Family Associations's Naughty and Nice list for Christmas Shopping.

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

12th Day of Thanks&Giving - The Gospel of Jesus Christ

Ok, so I very rarely post about religion, and although the other Thanks&Giving days may not be in any particular order, but this one may possibly be the one that I am MOST grateful for. First of all, if by some strange chance, someone is reading this and does not know my religious affiliation (because you obviously do not know me) or if you are just curious, you can click here to find out what we believe. Because now is not the time for me to tell you all of what I believe or what guides my life, but WHY I am grateful for the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.

I am grateful to know that

  • if I lose a loved one, I will see them again and we will be together.
  • when I pray, my Father in Heaven listens and answers me.
  • my husband I are married and sealed together for eternity, not just this life.
  • I have support in teaching my children values and principles that will help them lead a happy and productive life.
  • I can have comfort and guidance in making it through life's trials.
  • there is a purpose to this life.
  • we have modern-day prophets to give us guidance and help answer life's tough questions.
  • God will not ask me to do anything that is beyond my capabilities.
  • because of Christ's sacrifice, I can be forgiven and know that the Lord does not expect me to be perfect. Because of His atonement, the areas where I am weak or lacking, he steps in and takes over.

I am grateful to have the Lord's hand in my life. I am grateful for church community and the acceptance that I feel amongst it's members. I am grateful to have experienced this unity in all parts of the world and to see people from all cultures and all walks of life believing and striving for the same thing. I am grateful that there are people who have given up years of their life to share this message and help others be converted unto Christ.

No stories, or links, or pictures to share today. I just hope that tomorrow we will all take the time to REALLY think about what we are MOST grateful for and Who we have to thank for all of those blessings.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

11th Day of Thanks&Giving - Health

Just to clarify, no, this is not the same as being thankful for "Access to medical care". Colton has had a fever today, no other symptoms, just a raging fever, and it reminded me of an experience I had in Uganda. I haven't posted it yet, because there was just SO much about that day that I wanted to share and I didn't really know how to do it. It is impossible for me to categorize it as a certain type of day - it was new, awe-inspiring, humbling, funny, awkard, enlightening, amazing, educational, and . . . I can't quite describe the very part I want to tell you about. I am going to give you the shortened version of the day to give you the crux of what I want to highlight today:
A group of six of us traveled about 2 1/2 hrs out to a remote village on Lake Victoria to spend the day teaching and discussing needs. We had to hire a private taxi to take as out there, as there is no public transportation that goes anywhere near (probably because there are no real roads). We were welcomed with open arms - singing, food, grand introductions. They also took us for a ride in one of their fishing boats. The whole community had gathered to share the day with us and to hear what we came to teach. As they prepared the food, we were escorted on a brief walk through the village and to one of the two "schools" (pictured here). Though I REALLY want to tell more details about that visit, I will stick to the story. On our way, we were made aware of a very sick little boy who they thought was finally at the stage where he really should be taken to the clinic. We were glad that we were there and gladly used our phone to call our driver back. After visiting the school, we made our way back to the "community center" (benches under some huge shade trees) where we would eat and teach our classes. Before we began, one of the community leaders announced that our proceedings would be stopped because it seems that the little boy had just passed away. I was dumbfounded, I didn't know what to say or how to respond. Then from where we were, we could here the mother crying, wailing for her lost son. We were informed that the custom is for anyone of stature in the community to go in and to "say sorry" (in Lugandan, of course) to the mother. And they wanted us to go.
This is the hut, which I had taken a picture of on our first walk through the community, before I knew we would be returning to pay our condolences. As we arrived, of course the mother was still crying, and I was very apprehensive, to say the least. As I took the first step into the one-room, dirt-floored hut, I could no longer contain my emotion. I cried along with her and her mother for this little boy who was the same size as Colton, though probably older, laying on the dirt floor with ragged clothes and a scarf tied around his chin. I came out and wept some more. Malaria, as it turns out - totally and completely preventable.
I can spout off statistics all day long about the number of people living in poverty, the number of AIDS orphans, and the number of children that die every day from preventable diseases, but NEVER had I experienced it like this. Though I have seen poverty in many different countries and have worked with these people in all facets to improve their lives, I have never had it go straight through me like this dagger did. The sorrow I felt for this mother and still feel every time I think of this experience, is overwhelming. I cannot begin to describe all the feelings - I am sad for the lost life, angry that this has to happen, embarrased that I live so well comparatively and that at the same time it reminds me of what I have. I am so grateful.

Many, many times, in the quiet of the night, or when my children are ill and listless like today - I hold them tight and think of how lucky I am to have them, that they are healthy, able to grow and develop without any sort of hinderance. I am so blessed!

Luke 12: 48 - "For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required."
I have been given much, and I hope I can fulfill whatever calling God has in store for me.
I don't think I need to add anything more to this story, but just know that there are many, many organizations out there (click here for one example) that are fighting for life, battling preventable diseases like malaria, tuberculosis, polio, and HIV/AIDS. I happy to be a part of it.

Monday, November 23, 2009

10th Day of Thanks&Giving - My Home

Recent events (ie. horribly destructive natural disasters) have led me to be very thankful for this place I call home. I know that someday my time may come, but for now, I am grateful to feel secure and be warm and have my family near.

Click here to see how an organization called Oxfam International is responding right now to this:


Earthquake in Indonesia, Tsumani in Samoa, and a Typhoon that affected Cambodia, Vietnam, and the Philippines




















Are you feeling better about your situation yet?

Sunday, November 22, 2009

9th Day of Thanks&Giving - This Beautiful Earth






And this is Brazil, one of the most beautiful places on earth, but unfortunately for estimated 50 million or so people living in the slums, or favelas, of Rio de Janeiro and other cities, they are unable to enjoy its splendor. This article, "An upbeat spirit lifts Brazil's slums", is a great intro as we watch how Rio prepares for the 2016 olympics. The eyes of the world will be on this city - I wonder if it will help the poor residents of these shanty towns, or if the government will be too busy spending money elsewhere.



Saturday, November 21, 2009

8th Day of Thanks&Giving - Modern Conveniences

I have been reading my grandma and great-grandma's journals and I recently read a book that was set in 1906, and it got me thinking about all the things that make my life SO much easier. Honestly, how did they survive? . . . computers, phones, Internet (how else would I be able to tell you all the details of my life?), stove/oven, washer & dryer, microwave, refridgerator, disposable diapers, vacuum, dishwasher, power tools, digital cameras, video camera, printer, copy machines (I actually have an old activity book that says "get a blank paper and trace this picture" - can you imagine?), flushing toilets, furnace, fast food, mass transit, airplanes!, batteries, electricity, and on and on. There are so many things that my great-grandma, who is 100 yrs old, didn't have growing up or when she was raising her children. Although it could be argued that some of these things have bogged us down, made us lose touch with our families, or made us not rely on each other like we should, I am still EXTREMELY grateful for how they have improved my life.

I did a post already this year where I highlighted the work that HELP International does in building adobe stoves in less developed countries (click here), you should read this to understand some of the reasons why this is SO needed. Can you imagine having to cook ALL of your meals over an open fire - inside a hut, while caring for your children? That also means that you or your kids must collect wood, or some other type of fuel, and cut it EVERYDAY. I think of all the development projects I have done, this is definitely one of my favorites. Mostly because it has the most immediate short-term and long term effects on so many different areas. It improves health, saves money and time, and it is so cheap and simple!

There are many, many other organizations building all different versions of these "fuel efficient stoves" throughout the world. This is because the same thing is seen in impoverished countries around the globe - poor health from smoke inhalation, burn accidents, malnutrition, deforestation; the list goes on and on. To help you understand, here is a story from one such organization called Mercy Corps:

The Democratic Republic of the Congo (Congo, for short) has suffered from years of conflict. A recent escalation left hundreds of thousands of internally displaced people (IDPs) living in large, barely habitable, camps. In the three territories where Mercy Corps operates — Goma, Rutshuru and Masisi — there were more than 850,000 displaced people living in thirteen sprawling IDP camps by the end of 2008. These camps were all located on the border of Virunga National Park, one the most threatened World Heritage Sites in the world. Not only is the park a bio-diversity hotspot but it is home to the last vestiges of the mountain gorilla. The Park was already under severe pressure from local population growth before the IDPs arrived.

When displaced families use traditional food preparation techniques, which typically consist of an open cooking fire, the daily firewood needs for each IDP household amounts to seven kilograms of wood per day. For the total displaced population in the area, this translated to a total daily need of over 900 tons of wood every day.

The fuel needs for these cooking fires was not only causing severe deforestation in the National Park but the collection of fuel wood in unstable areas was placing women at risk of rape and murder by some of the remaining rebel soldiers.

Thanks to funding received for this project, Mercy Corps has been able to construct 20,000 fuel efficient stoves for IDP families. The introduction of these stoves, together with training in improved food preparation techniques, has had a dramatic effect. Not only has firewood consumption been reduced by around 50 percent, but the use of the stoves has improved the security and health of women and their children. It has also reduced CO2 emissions by an estimated 24,000 tons to date.

Some of the IDPs are now beginning to return home. Many are intending to construct fuel efficient stoves in their home villages and Mercy Corps will be providing ongoing support in this transitional period.

Check out these other links if you are interested in learning more:
Darfur Cookstoves
CHF International
Stove Team International
Escorts Foundation
Lorena Stove powerpoint - this is a really good informative description of how this type works and why they are important

Friday, November 20, 2009

Nothing to do with Thanksgiving

My friend, Kate, tagged me this week on her blog. This means I HAVE to answer the questions. hehe. Actually, it's kind of funny because I was literally just thinking that I haven't been tagged for anything in awhile and I thought "Maybe nobody likes me anymore" and then I thought, "No, it's probably just that the 'tagging' fad has passed and nobody does that anymore". But low and behold, I find myself sitting here thinking about actually posting these. Crazy, I know, I think I have several other "tags" that have fallen away in my drafts that I never completed - so sorry to all my other friends, it doesn't mean I love you any less. :)

1. What were you doing ten years ago?

Riding the roller coaster of "Marriage Year One". (Also, going to UVSC - finally half-way applying myself at school; living in a duplex in Provo; working for a rich lady who did business in the middle east; rollerblading all the time; going to physical therapy for a car accident I was in; still writing wedding gift thank you notes; wearing 3 sizes smaller than I do now; watching movies in the middle of the day; eating out at least 60% of the time; playing with my dog, zip; and other things that newlyweds do often . . .)

2. What are five things on your to-do list?

My "weighing on my mind" to-do list:
1. Go grocery shopping - I have been doing the "quick trip" for like two weeks now, but it is time to make some meal plans and get some real food (but oh how I hate taking 3 kids!)
2. Plan my Thanksgiving themed preschool for next Tuesday
3. Finish putting together the budget and other logistics for the Board/Donor trip I am proposing for HELP International (the non-profit I work with )
4. Finish all the family Christmas gifts I am making before I leave for Denver on Dec. 3
5. Keep up with the 12 days of Thanksgiving on my blog that I "promised" to do

My Life To-Do List
1. Write a book
2. Get a post-graduate degree
3. Visit every continent multiple times (except Antarctica - I think just once will do)
4. Be one of those people where others say, "Now she has alot of experience, you should ask her."
5. Be a REAL social entrepreneur, change lives and inspire others to do the same

3. What are snacks you enjoy?

I think I am like most women - depends on my mood. For the sweet stuff: really good chocolate chip cookies, fudge covered oreos, brownies, creamies, these triple chocolate blondies that I make, and pretty much anything that has chocolate or caramel and NO nuts. If I'm in a salty mood: cheetos, plain original pringles, and chips and salsa (or queso). And of course, occasionally, when my kids are watching, I snack on apples, bananas, yogurt, or carrots. And I don't know if this counts as a snack or a staple, but I love me a good Mountain Dew - any time, any place.

4. What are the places you have lived?

In order: Englewood, CO; Provo, UT; Dallas, San Antonio, Houston, TX; Denver, CO; Provo, UT; Ogden, UT; Provo,UT; and now I (semi-)permanently reside in Spanish Fork, UT (sometimes referred to as "Spanish Fark")

**When I first read this, I thought it said "What are the places you have liked?" . And I think that's funner, so I think I will answer that too. Of course, I think I have liked everywhere, so I will just list my favorites - just in case you are wondering where to go on your next vay-cay.

In no particular order - London; Switzerland; Guatemala; Russia; Iguazu Falls (Brazil); Yellowstone National Park (& Montana in general); South Dakota; Washington DC; Hawaii; Uganda; Seattle & Portland; and of course, I love Denver and Kingwood.

5. What are five things you would do if you became a billionaire?

In this order:
1. Pay off all my debt
2. Hire a really good, honest, morally sound financial person
3. Make sure none of my siblings or my parents are drowning in debt (unless it is by their own stupidity, then they will get no help from me whatsoever)
4. Figure out what amount I need to live on
5. Spend lots of time deciding which charities I love most and use the rest of the money for me and my family to travel, teach, serve, etc.
(oh, and my husband and I will continue to work so long as it is doing something that we love)

My five friends that have now been TAGGED (and will be monitered closely): Sarah B., Jennifer J. (you can do it after you recover from this month's blogging), Emily M., Janae R. and Krystal R.

7th Day of Thanks&Giving - Friends

What I've Learned from My Girlfriends
Author Unknown

Good times are even better when they're shared.
A good, long talk can cure anything.
Listening is just as important as talking.
Everyone needs someone with whom to share their secrets.
Laughter makes the world a happier place.
Sometimes you just need a shoulder to cry on.
Great minds think alike.
You are NEVER to old for slumber parties!
Girls just want to have fun!
It's important to make time to do "girl things".
An understanding friend is better than a therapist, and cheaper too!
Gems may be precious, but friendship is priceless!

"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words." -Author Unknown

I am so grateful for all of my friends and all the different roles they play in helping me through this thing called life. I always get these cheesy chain-emails about friends and sometimes I just delete them, but sometimes they hit the nail on the head, because friends do make life sweeter, the hard times more bearable and fill in the voids that we all experience at some point or another. So THANK YOU to all of my friends - for your support, your honesty, your compliments, your advice, your laughter, your listening ear, your patience, your service, your acceptance and your love.

The idea of "friends" is a universal concept. Women all over the world have and need these relationships. In certain settings it has become, literally, life-saving. There is a method of poverty alleviation, called microcredit, that has taken hold in developing countries that allows the very, very poor to borrow money through a system based on solidarity lending. Most of the recipients of microcredit are women living on less than a dollar a day, and because they lack collateral, steady employment or any sort of credit history, they generally cannot get a loan from a traditional bank. Microcredit is one of the few things that has revolutionized they way we help the poor and changed millions of lives. Money is given to and managed by "village banks" or "solidarity groups" and they are responsible to each other for repayment. All the women in the group become the "collateral" for each individual who has recieved a loan - if she can't repay it or can't make her payment that month, it is covered by the group.
It is obviously much more complicated than I can describe here, but it has revolutionized they way we are fighting poverty around the world. The founder of Grameen bank and the genius behind this concept, Muhammad Yunus, recently won a Nobel Peace Prize for his decades of work. Now there are hundreds of organizations that are involved in microcredit, microfinance, microlending, microentrepreneurship, etc - and they are doing AMAZING things. They are changing lives and breaking the cycle of generations of poverty and hopelessness.

Pause the music a minute and see for yourself how this can empower people.






Look at the pride in their eyes and the happiness in each of their faces!

Thursday, November 19, 2009

6th Day of Thanks&Giving - Food

Yes, I love it. All kinds. My favorites: Mexican, Thai, Indian, and good old southern home cookin'. I think my brother and I were the only ones in elementary school that liked the fried okra - and rather than be embarrased for actually wanting to eat, I would use the ploy "dare me to eat this stuff?" Oh, and I love most things with chocolate. But before I get sidetracked, I am THANKFUL that I have enough, that I can choose what I eat, that I don't have to worry where my next meal is coming from, that my children are well nourished, that I don't have to put them to bed hungry, and that if by some small chance, I didn't have enough food - I have a huge network of support from which I could find something to eat.

Unless you've been raised in a bubble, you know that there are people all over the world (including our own country) that do not have enough food or clean water. This is just one organization that is doing a myriad of things in just one village to improve the outlook for those who live there. They are literally saving lives. Click here to be inspired and see what's happening for some of the world's poor. More on Village of Hope here.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

5th Day of Thanks&Giving - Government Infrastructure

As much as people complain and fight against it, I am thankful that we have this:
And, yes, this:To protect us from this:
And this:
And this: click here for more
According to the british organization Oxfam, hundreds of thousands of Somali refugees are jammed into camps that are "barely fit for humans," with poor sanitation and little access to water and medicine. The camps are in Somalia, Kenya, and Ethiopia.

More than half of the Somali population—3.8 million people—need humanitarian aid, according to the United Nations.

The Dadaab complex in Kenya—the largest refugee camp in the world—is home to more than 280,000 people in an area meant to hold 90,000. Oxfam said that in the Somali town of Afgoye near the bullet-scarred capital, 485,000 people are taking shelter on a 9-mile strip of land.
The UNHCR, The UN Refugee Agency, is just one of many organizations that is providing protection and assistance to those forced to leave their homes because of violence, famine, or other causes. Read Hodan Mawlid's story here. And she is just one of millions.

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

4th Day of Thanks&Giving - Employment

Although at times we are cashing in our penny jar and I feel like we are scraping to get by, I am very grateful that in these economically tough times we have a job at all. By "we", "of course, I mean my husband. And although he doesn't like being gone as much as he is, I am thankful for both of his jobs. I am thankful that he likes, and sometimes loves, his job. I am thankful that he is able to work and provide for our family. I am thankful for the second family we have there. We are so blessed!

When I say "scraping by", we all know that I am not out in the trees trying to collect food for my kids, but unfortunately, there are many people around the world for whom that is a reality. I am grateful for all the organizations out there that are working to help others provide for their own well-being. The following story is from Heifer International (they do amazing things!):

For decades, the Akha tribes of northern Thailand relied on one method of survival: Constant migration throughout the region necessitated by the slash-and-burn technique of farming. Then everything changed.

New government policies included tribe members' forced settlement. It didn't take long for them to find that the only farming method they'd known quickly depleted what little land they had. The notorious dry season only made things worse, and soon the youth of the villages were leaving home to find work that too often involved prostitution and lead to drug addiction. Meanwhile, those left behind still had to eat.

Mrs. Nakha remembers that their food and income "…came only from what we found in the forest." And although it was illegal, "We were forced to collect charcoal [for cooking] in the middle of the night. We didn't even use a flashlight to guide us, only lighted matches, so that we wouldn't get caught." During the daylight hours, "We were idle and isolated ourselves from each other." Forming a village community seemed impossible.

In 1999, Heifer International's Thailand program began working with these families, teaching them how to plant kitchen gardens and care for the water buffalo, cattle, pigs and poultry Heifer provided. The villagers learned how to use biogas for their fuel. Ten neighboring villages even banded together to plant almost 50,000 trees in a one-hundred hectare area where water springs are located. Now, this new forest absorbs rain water and supplies it to the villages during the dry season.

"Today we can establish ourselves as a community," said Amui Wazu. "And Heifer has introduced us to the kitchen gardens, which have been our savior. We have vegetables year-round!" "Since Heifer International [came], we are always busy with our animals and our kitchen gardens," Mrs. Nakha added. "We do not need to go elsewhere for our food, because everything for our survival is here."

To read more Heifer success stories, click here.

Monday, November 16, 2009

3rd Day of Thanks&Giving - Education

I had one goal before I had children - to finish my bachelors degree. Whether it was fate or perfect planning on my part, I brought my oldest son, Corbin, home from the hospital the same day I received my diploma from Brigham Young University. As I had planned since the age of 14, I studied International Relations and was well on my way to saving the world. My education has not only given me a broader perspective of the world, but it has given me oppportunities to serve and grow in ways I never would have imagined. It has allowed me to travel and teach and share with others my passion for community development and poverty alleviation. It has made me a better mother and a more productive member of society. I am so thankful for education I have recieved and am so grateful that my sons will have many of those same opportunities. I hope we do not take for granted all the knowledge that is available to us.

All around the world, there are millions of children who do not have the opportunity for an education. Many do not even have a place to call home. In El Salvador, I had the chance to work at a home for street boys. I could not believe how young some of them were - and before coming to this home, they were expected to provide for and take care of themselves, literally on the streets of a large city. Many of them had been abused and that is why they chose to live this way instead of going home. Most of them had been involved with crime, drugs, violence, street gangs, or all of the above. This home helped integrate them back into society by putting them back in school, giving them vocational training, and most importantly, giving them the emotional support and confidence they needed to progress with their lives. I am so grateful to those who help make this happen and who see more in these boys than the menacing label society would put on them.

In Uganda, there is a similar organization. Though new and fairly small, they are having a profound effect on children that others have forgotten about. They are The Youth Outreach Mission. It is run by a few young men, who after completely their university studies, have decided to return home and do all they can to help the less fortunate in their communities. Volunteers of HELP International have had the opportunity to work with them for a couple years now and have had tremendous experiences. I mentioned them previously here, but that was just one small part of what they do. To see more, check out their blog here, and just remember that it is amazing that they even have an internet presence. This is true grassroots efforts making a real difference in the lives of Ugandan street children. These guys are amazing - so motivated and dedicated. They are very inspiring!

Count Your Many Blessings

I love this story of gratitude that President Eyring shared once in a talk:

When our children were very small, I started to write down a few things about what happened every day. Let me tell you how that got started. I came home late from a Church assignment. It was after dark. My father-in-law, who lived near us, surprised me as I walked toward the front door of my house. He was carrying a load of pipes over his shoulder, walking very fast and dressed in his work clothes. I knew that he had been building a system to pump water from a stream below us up to our property.

He smiled, spoke softly, and then rushed past me into the darkness to go on with his work. I took a few steps toward the house, thinking of what he was doing for us, and just as I got to the door, I heard in my mind (not in my own voice) these words: "I'm not giving you these experiences for yourself. Write them down."

I went inside. I didn't go to bed. Although I was tired, I took out some paper and began to write. And as I did, I understood the message I had heard in my mind. I was supposed to record for my children to read, someday in the future, how I had seen the hand of God blessing our family. Grandpa didn't have to do what he was doing for us. He could have had someone else do it or not have done it at all. But he was serving us, his family, in the way covenant disciples of Jesus Christ always do. I knew that was true. And so I wrote it down, so that my children could have the memory someday when they would need it.

I wrote down a few lines every day for years. I never missed a day no matter how tired I was or how early I would have to start the next day. Before I would write, I would ponder this question: "Have I seen the hand of God reaching out to touch us or our children or our family today?" As I kept at it, something began to happen. As I would cast my mind over the day, I would see evidence of what God had done for one of us that I had not recognized in the busy moments of the day. As that happened, and it happened often, I realized that trying to remember had allowed God to show me what He had done.

More than gratitude began to grow in my heart. Testimony grew. I became ever more certain that our Heavenly Father hears and answers prayers. I felt more gratitude for the softening and refining that come because of the Atonement of the Savior Jesus Christ. And I grew more confident that the Holy Ghost can bring all things to our remembrance - even things we did not notice or pay attention to when they happened.

The years have gone by. My boys are grown men. And now and then one of them will surprise me by saying, "Dad, I was reading in my copy of the journal about when . . . " and then he will tell me about how reading of what happened long ago helped him notice something God had done in his day.

My point is to urge you to find ways to recognize and remember God's kindness. It will build our testimonies. You may not keep a journal. You may not share whatever record you keep with those you love and serve. But you and they will be blessed as you remember what the Lord has done. You remember that song we sometimes sing: "Count your many blessings; name them one by one, And it will surprise you what the Lord has done."

Sunday, November 15, 2009

2nd Day of Thanks&Giving - My Boys



I am so lucky to be the mother of three awesome boys. I am thankful that they a healthy, safe, growing, learning, loved, and that they are able to just be boys! They have helped me to grow and become a better person. They make me laugh (and sometimes cry) everyday. I love teaching them and seeing them develop as people. So many times I have sat in the dark at night holding them and thinking how blessed I am to have them safe in my arms and to be able to care for them. I love my boys and I LOVE being mother!


According to Amnesty International, approximately 250,000 children are fighting in armed conflicts around the world, and hundreds of thousands more are members of armed forces that could be sent into combat at any time. Recruitment of these child soldiers starts at age 10, although younger ages have been recorded. Easily coerced, they are forced to commit grave atrocities - much of it beyond our naive comprehension.


Although some change is happening in Uganda, there are many countries in Africa and elsewhere where this is still occurring and causing many children, even those who have not been abducted or "recruited", to live in fear. I'm glad that there are people working for the rights of these child soldiers and working to help them regain their lives.

Don't forget to pause the music at the bottom.

Saturday, November 14, 2009

1st Day of Thanks&Giving - Access to Medical Care

And so begins The 12 Days of Thanksgiving . . . as we countdown the days until our one day a year of allowed supreme gluttony, I will join the many others who have been posting all the things they are thankful for. Also, since this time of year seems to remind us to give, I will share stories of people giving to those in need to make you even more grateful (hopefully) for the all the blessings we may sometimes take for granted.

I am thankful for the great medical care that is availiable to us in this country. Aside from whatever Obama or and politicians decide, there is no doubt in my mind that I am blessed just to be in this country. I am thankful that when my child is sick, I can take them to the doctor, they will be given medication that will, usually, be covered by my insurance, and I can bring them back to their nice cozy home where they will recover. I am thankful that we can recieve vaccinations for diseases that should have been irradicated long ago, but are still killing children in the developing world. (maybe one day I will get through my tears enough to post my story about my experience with malaria this summer in Uganda). I am thankful for emergency care and the comfort I have to know that I can dial three numbers and someone will rush to my aid without question. Mostly, I am SO thankful that when I am pregnant and when I deliver my children, or have them surgically removed, that I have access to a clean hospital and to educated medical personnel that I can trust.


Medical services in a developing country are far from adequate. Most of us are ignorant to the complications that can come from going through childbirth in unfathomable circumstances of poverty. Have you heard of fistula? While it sounds selfish to say that I am glad this is no longer a problem in the United States, I am also glad to know that someone is changing women's lives in countries that aren't so lucky. You need to watch this (at least part one).

If you want to see more, check out this documentary A Walk to Beautiful.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Why is there a "V" today?

This morning Corbin checked his lunch menu as he does everyday to see if he likes what they are having at school, or if he needs to bring lunch from home; then he asked "Why is there a big "V" on today?" I remembered today was Veteran's Day and he said "Oh yeah, we're singing to all the army guys today". I asked him if he knew what Veteran's Day was all about . . . "uh, no, not really". So I gave him the short version. Tonight we will talk more about what it means and why we are so blessed to have people that are willing to serve.

I will tell him about his Grandma, who recently passed away, and his Grandpa who served in World War II.
I will tell him of Colton's namesake, his great-grandpa, who left this earth the day Colton was born, and who also served with pride in the U.S. Army during World War II.

If we were in Denver, I would take my children to Fort Logan Cemetary and show them, along with their family members, all the people who have given their lives in service of this great country.

We will talk about our neighbor who recently returned from Afghanistan, and his friends' dad who is gone to training in preparation for their move overseas. Sometimes I think that I have it hard since my husband is only home a few nights a week, or a few days a month - but then I think about all the military wives who have sacrificed so much more (click here for a great article entitled "Lessons from a Military Wife").

For years I was apathetic and mostly ignorant about those who serve and fight for our country, but as I learn more, read more, and talk with people more about it, I have come to have a different and more sympathetic outlook. I have so much respect and gratitude for those who serve in whatever capacity - policeman, firefighters, military, coast guard, etc. Thank you for your selflessness!

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Trick or Treat

Not too many stories to tell about Halloween this year. I always love seeing my kids dressed up in their costumes and they love trick or treating.

Ready for trick or treating on Main Street . . . I was a gypsy ( it started out as a fortune teller, but the boys lost my awesome crystal ball and I was no longer able to foretell the future). We used to love the Main Street Trick or Treat, because it gave us something fun to do during the day on Halloween, but now there are SO many people; I don't know that we will do it again next year. We may have to find some other fun activity - any ideas?
At any rate, it was fun and Corbin's costume was VERY popular. At first he really didn't like everyone pointing and commenting, but I explained to him that this was a good thing. It meant that they liked his costume and they thought he looked awesome. By the end he was totally proud of it and was smiling from ear to ear every time someone said something.
Corbin and I had been looking at lots of costume ideas in magazines and online and when we came across this, we knew it was just the one for him. He picked yellow because that was his favorite color. I made the hat a little different than the one we saw, and I think the whole costume turned out pretty sweet.
Cody found this costume in our costume box weeks ago, and has loved it ever since. Aside from the fact that we always call him "Cody-bug", I think it totally fits his cute, busy little personality. I loved watching him run around cause the little bum would wiggle as he ran from one person to the next. I also loved that he refered to him self as caterpillar ("Caterpillars love suckers", as he opens yet another piece of candy), and we were expected to do the same ("Mom, you have to say 'Caterpillar wash your hands, not Cody wash your hands'").


Have you ever seen a cuter monkey? Colton's costume was very fitting as we have called him "Monkey", or "Monk" for short, since he was about 9 months old and would do this cling on thing with every time you held him. Plus he has these scrawny little arms and legs and can manuever like only little flexible 1 year olds can. He's just so cute! I wanted to paint his face like a little monkey, but I figured that wouldn't work so well, since I spend half my day wiping something from his nose, mouth, chin, etc. Colton spent most of the day with a sucker or other piece of candy in his mouth. My only consolation was that he drooled most of the sugar onto his outfit and he rarely actually finished what he was eating before moving onto the next piece.
Back at the homestead we got ready for some more trick or treating around the neighborhood. I love where we live, it is so kid friendly! Although, thanks to Russ's awesome webbing skills, some kids were afraid to come to our door - there were several parents who came bearing their child's bag.
As we headed out that evening, Cody decided he would rather hang around with Dad and play, so I pushed Colton around while Corbin trick or treated with Hermoine and a storm trooper (aka Nadia and David).